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in Cuba
Cuban Customs
One may find that interaction between men and women in Cuba
differs slightly from other countries. Here, physical contact
is more common than, say, in the U.S. or in most European
countries. Cubans are naturally lively, happy and outspoken
people. Their way of interacting with each other is easygoing
and most formalities are done away with.
Generally both men and women enjoy each other’s
company and may openly acknowledge this with a dazzling smile,
and be warm and flirtatious. This may not necessarily mean
anything though and can be considered as being part of Cuban
nature. It will of course, depend on each particular situation,
but don’t jump to hasty conclusions.
Machismo in Cuba
Traditionally, like many other Spanish
colonies of old, Cuba was known as one of the societies in
which men have been known for their macho and chauvinistic
behavior towards women. This however, has been changing with
time and much less of this sort of attitude is seen nowadays.
Despite hints of machismo, Cuban women nowadays are coming
into their own and are fairly independent.
Even so, standards are not what you may
expect to find in the U. K. or in the U.S. and women, especially
if traveling alone, can expect flirtatious comments to be
called her way.
This is referred to as “piropeo”
and is quite common not only in Cuba, but in other Latin
American countries and even in Spain. Although this may
seem rude or annoying, generally no harm is meant and is
simply a natural way for men to express their admiration
for women. Many take this as a compliment!
You may be surprised to find out that here
women sometimes call out comments of these kinds to men.
Dating in Cuba
Dating and courtship rules have gradually been changing throughout
the world as time has gone by. This is evident in some countries
more than others. Cuba is on its way to becoming a more modern
country, but with romantic issues, one will still find that
many Cubans still tend to adhere to a more traditional outlook
in this aspect.
The man is the one who will initially ask a
woman out -it is very rarely the other way around –
and when out on a date it is usually the man who will pay
the bill. It is practically unheard of that a woman foot the
bill at leas ton the first few dates. Usually this remains
so until the relationship has become something more serious.
Flirting
Flirting, as anywhere else in the world, is basically communication.
It involves getting the right message across. Remember:
Modest behavior is appreciated and flaunting
superiority, intelligence and ability is generally regarded
a turn-off.
Personal appearance, image and human relationships
are very important so be sure to put some thought into your
outfit and attire as well as your greetings and farewells
if you’re interested in making a good impression.
Apart from your behavior, looks and body-language,
words form an important part of flirting. That’s where
knowing the language comes in handy. This is just another
of the many possibilities that speaking a language can bring
you closer to.
